Cap'n: "D1B, can you come over again and wipe my azz? I'm still too fat to do it myself. Just don't tell anyone."
Cappy...you've been in and out of a job for...well, almost forever. Time for you to use some good old, white American ingenuity...become a bidet salesman and put a franchised sales store next to every McDonalds and Applebee's. There's a growing market out there as Americans are getting fatter by the minute.
kalm wrote:Should he take responsibility for living a lie or for being gay? I'm all on board with the responsibility thing and it would have been nice if came out and was honest about who he was. It would have been even better if he never felt compelled to hide it in the first plance. Everyone feels shame from time to time including you. At issue is what causes that shame. Pedophilia should, being gay shouldn't.
See, there's where we disagree. Discrimination is everywhere in many forms...skin color, religion, accent, weight, height, big nosed, red hair, ugly, shyness, financial (can you imagine the pressure Cap'n was under...he fits, with a little help from a crowbar, almost every woeful category one can think of)...you name it and people will treat you differently and deny (or provide) you opportunity. And everyone discriminates on some level...despite some whack jobs trying to say otherwise.
In the end, you can choose to let that crap slow you down and change you or you can choose to be yourself. No one is "compelled" to do anything...but too many people are lemmings. They CHOOSE to do things and then blame everyone else for their problems.
I respect the people who are honest with themselves and others.
