Ibanez wrote: ↑Fri Jan 22, 2021 9:40 am
My lord. That's awful, Chadwick. I hope you recover quickly.
And to think - I used her advice when I has having a rough patch in my own marriage.
Honestly, if you knew even 15% of even what I was able to discover over the last year, you'd shit your pants. If I was convinced, she wouldn't read this forum and stalk my posts by username, I'd share. Though I know she has a long history of just doing a "search by user" for posts from me on here, AGS, Twitter, etc. Given we are still going through the legal side of it, I would guess it's not in my best interest to just throw it out there, even buried in a thousand post-long thread about covid.
I've brought up a similar issue to the "professional" deal and how everything that happened before and after the idea of the divorce came out and she just shits on it with "don't you dare bring my profession into it" even though I think it's pretty fucked that a therapist WHO WORKS WITH COUPLES GOING THROUGH SHIT LIKE THIS to do what she's done.
Oh, want one fun fact I'm willing to share.
Member my story about ending up in the hospital with DKA, almost dead, when my pancreas died? I went to urgent care the morning of Sunday May 17th. It was there they told me I needed to go to the ER but I could go home and pack a bag first. It was in that 5 minutes I was at home packing a bag explaining to her what was happening that she went "I don't want to be married anymore" and walked away
So yep. I just found out from a medical professional the fact I'm alive and functioning is a borderline miracle, I go to the one person I'd expect support from and her response wasn't any kind of support or anything. The only words out of her mouth that entire time I was home was "I don't want to be married anymore".
I then went and spent a week in the hospital, thinking I'm going to die, marinating on that being the last thing I was told. She didn't send me a message all week. When I got home from the hospital the first thing she did was take the kids and run away to her parents house because "she was scared" because of how I looked. No shit? I had lost 40lbs in two weeks, had gone through one of the most traumatic things my body could go through, spent a week in the hospital having my body medically reversed from that. Of course, I looked like shit. She painted me as an animal to her friends and family to the point they were going to call the cops to get her out of the house while I was there because of "how I was acting" when I got home. I could barely stand when I got home, the fuck was I going to do?
This photo was me the morning after I got home. Woke up to an empty house now type 1 diabetic with no reason why it happened and now facing a divorce that I didn't see coming at all while having the person run away from me, with the kids, painting me as a violent animal she was scared of.
Clearly I was a danger to everyone at that point. Good thing I didn't follow through on my apparent urge to just kill everyone